Where were your peeps on this one Miley?

Yes, you’re the #1 trending thing today, and you’re probably going to be getting all sorts of requests for late-night TV, so it’ll blind you for a bit to how extensive all this really was.    And you’ll even say that you won’t lurk online and read stuff about yourself sweetie, but you will.   And a lot of it’ll be nasty and hurtful and you will be devastated.

I think that there needs to be a support group.  And not just for Miley, but for ALL the child stars out there who want to bridge that gap between childhood and adult stardom but pull an Icarus and fly way too freaking close to the sun.   There are precious few who make the leap without crashing and burning.  For every Christina and Dakota who seem to have their heads on straight, there are many more Lindsays and Amandas who, I’m only guessing, are surrounded by ‘yes’ people and no one who actually keeps them grounded in reality.  Where are the mentors?  Where’s Drew Barrymore – guiding you into the light?  I think that Meryl Streep, Jodie Foster, Tilda Swinton and Glenn Close should each get six to ten girls teetering on the edge between successful teen star and starlet given to public displays of drunken crazy and make sure they don’t tank.

Miley, now might be the time to reach out to those people who tell you the truth and have your back. Your real friends and family – not the ones who smile and nod and tell you you’re cool and that every idea you have is brilliant. You’re only 20 years old.  You’ve got a whole lot more living and learning to do.  I’d love for you to still be around so I can watch you do it.