Hurray! I get to run on the beach and ride white horses!

HURRAY!!!!

Recently, Rissa arrived home from school, all moany and growly and generally not her usual bouncy self.

“Are you tired honey?” 

“NO!  My PERIOD started.”  Grrrrrrrrrr…

(So… I have this thing.  Women shouldn’t use their periods as a
convenient excuse for just being moody bitches.  Yes, most definitely it
can be a pain in the ass, both metaphorically and quite literally (say if your sit bones come into play – I mean Sweet Mother of Creation – how can you even HURT there – they are bones!?!)  But you know what?  You don’t have to decimate the rest of the world with your hormonal
fallout.  I had no cramping until I was in my 20s. It only really got bad for me AFTER having babies.  Unintentional moodiness happens, sure, but if I find myself doing it, that’s when I know to take a breath, regroup and pour myself a scotch tea.  For me, the first 36 hours suck like a Dane getting the marrow out of a turkey neck; I’m pretty much medicated/drunk the whole time clutching my heating pad and watching bad t.v., but you’re not going to find me yelling at random dudes on the street, “You fucking fuckers have no fucking clue what the fuck I’m going through here!!”  It is what it is.)

Rissa’s new to the game, I therefore take a patience-filled breath before I ask, “Are you cramping?”  Maybe she’s in true discomfort.  I ready my bosom for a commiserative hug.

“No… but the universe is mean!!  We shouldn’t HAVE to bleed.”

Well I can’t really fault that sentiment.  “How about this?  How about you become a scientist and you can figure out a way for women not to actually have to bleed, but they can still ovulate and have babies?”

“No, that seems like a lot of work.  Especially if I’m having my period.”

Chart Your Cycle – by Chella Quint – awesome zine!!