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Thyroidosaurus vs Perimenopauseratops

WARNING:  Female issues will be discussed.   You get to be a certain age of woman and you don’t put up with as much shit anymore.  You’ve made it through early parenthood and you’re still standing.  You’ve mostly got it down, you know what works and what doesn’t.  You’ve developed a rhythm and that rhythm generally…

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And now I have to take extra underwear to work…

“Not cool!  This is NOT cool!”  I exasperate. “What?  What is it?”  David responds. “I peed my pants FIVE  times today while coughing!!!” “Oh hon… You’ll do better tomorrow…  Tomorrow you can make it to six!” “Do NOT make me laugh.”  I have already crossed my thighs in preparation for any laugh leakage. David and…

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If my breasts were 22, this wouldn’t happen!

“Just one more?  Please can’t we watch just one more?” I beg. “No Mummy.  We’ve already watched three episodes.  You’re done,” says Rissa. I look over to David forlornly. He shrugs.  “The kid has spoken.  It’s bedtime for Bonzo.” I throw myself across their laps, wailing in dissatisfaction.  They are unmoved.  As I am lying…

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My get up and go has f@¢#ed off… how do women survive middle-age?

On the plus side?  I’m 46 years old and still alive.   If this were the Middle Ages, I’d be dead already, or close to dead, or, at the very least, a great-Grandma, with incredibly saggy boobs because they didn’t have proper brassieres back then. On the minus side?  The part of my brain that is…

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Why yes, this IS what middle-aged hair looks like…

“Heather, what do you want for… HOLY CRAP!!!” says David as he sticks his head behind the shower curtain.  He’s reacting to the shower wall, upon which I have left all the ‘extra’ hair from my head.  And by ‘extra’ hair, I mean the hair that I regularly lose when I wash my hair.  “Are…

And THAT is how Peri Menopause makes you healthier…

Blergh. “You okay?” I don’t even want to admit what I’ve done.  “Fine.  I’m fine.” David’s eyebrows raise. I’m sitting on the sofa in our petite grande room.  I have a Rusty Nail in one hand and cheap-ass Christmas romance collection in the other. “I might have eaten bad things,” I mumble. “Pardon me?” “grumble……

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I now understand the zip-up, floral, velour nightie/housecoat/muumuu…

You see them in the lingerie departments of the Bay. You see them in the Sears catalogue. You have memories of your Gran or your Great-Gran wearing one. You think to yourself: I will never wear one of those.  I’m shopping for one. I used to sleep naked. I used to revel in my naked…

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I really miss my right arm.

Ironing left-handed is akin to learning to ride a unicycle, but I’m pretty sure this hobble-shouldered old dog can learn new tricks.  Cursing and taking double the time to actually get clothes wrinkle-free – but 20 minutes later, the shirt’s relatively smooth.  TAH-DAAAAH!!!!  Until the iron falls, spilling water everywhere, and I reach for it…